In my last post, I shared that I had destashed two garbage bags of kid’s clothes. Today while doing laundry, I had a moment. My daughter’s closet has been PACKED since before she ever came earthside. I’ve been buying packages of hangers monthly. Even with consistent and frequent destashes, it was still jammed and I’d have to shove stuff to the side just to squeeze in a few more clean items.
A poor quality photo. Poor quality because I was in such a state of URGENCY here. Look at it. There is literally a kitchen sink in there. (although this is actually *the best* space for our kitchen playset… It keeps it out of sight and saves space in the bedroom.) But this is where we stood AFTER my purge last week. This is not minimal. This is not peaceful.
Getting dressed and choosing clothes is always a headache. My husband simply refuses to help pick clothes because of the absolute chaos in the closet. Things that don’t fit yet, things that are super cute but kinda don’t fit yet, things that are cute and fit great but, as my girl says, have “scratchy lines inside.” (shirred fabrics) A giant mound of hand-me-downs, too-big items, or out of season things added to all that as well.
Today I decided I’m over it.
Completely and utterly EXHAUSTED by it.
You know you’re in a terrible state of excess, and dare I say ungratefulness, when clothing is a BURDEN.
Poor quality photo.
Superb quality destash.
This is everything except socks and undergarments.
I now have almost 100 empty child’s hangers in my laundry room.
I’m still blown away by this.
I want to share how I went about it and to encourage you to take the plunge yourself. It took me about two hours (one nap time), and it feels WONDERFUL! I’ll go ahead and say that I kind of lucked out with a kid that despises most pants. She has maybe three pairs of pants she will wear. I’ve always been frustrated by that. No longer!
YOU CAN DO THIS!
Step One – The Absolutes
First, I pulled out everything I knew was a 110% keeper. For my daughter, that included “puppy shirt,” “Ariel dress,” and “the red shirt.” She is the ultimate minimalist. I pulled out a couple brand new, unworn things and then used the following criteria to complete this first step.
- It must fit right now
- It must be something we all really, really like
- It must be seasonally appropriate
I ended up with about a dozen things in this first sorting.
Step Two – The Basics
Next, I went through and pulled out the “staples” that we liked. Basically, things that make life easy.
- Things suitable for everyday wear at home or quick outings
- A few nicer things for church
- Things that could pull double duty (shirts that layer well, cute outfits that work for any and every occasion, etc)
Step Three – The Unnecessary
The third step was to pull out the fer-shurr no’s.
- Things that either one or both of us disliked
- Things that didn’t fit nicely
- Summer clothes
- General “bleh” items.
Anything either of us didn’t care for went into the destash bucket. Bleh items went in there as well along with anything on the verge of being too small. Anything too big was judged and sorted based on “Will this summer item fit six months from now?” and “Do we even like it?” and most importantly “Does it have itchy lines inside?”
Step Four – The Assessment
At this point I still had several things hanging in the closest that I was unsure about. They fit most of my keeper criteria, but I was having commitment issues. So I sorted my keeper items from steps one and two into these categories.
- Short sleeve shirts/outfits.
- Long sleeve shirts/outfits.
- Everyday dresses.
- Church dresses.
Looking at my definite keepers made it easier to decide on the items I was feeling unsure about. I could see that I had plenty of this and maybe needed a few more of that. Basing my choices on what I wanted to KEEP rather than what I wanted to get rid of made this purge much easier for me.
I finally had an empty closet..
Step Five – The Miscellany
On to the mound of random items stuffed into the corner. (Maybe you already keep yours in a nice heirloom trunk, but going through it is still a good idea!) I followed much of the same criteria for these things.
- Strong appeal to us both
- Likelihood to fit
- Whether or not it was similar to another item
It all fits into a printer paper box. I didn’t even have to sit on the lid to shut it.
THIS is what minimalism feels like. I know there are people out there with one pair of jeans and three shirts, and maybe I’ll get there one day, but this is amazing! I encourage you…Don’t stop until you reach a genuine place of peace and happiness and excitement about the state of your belongings. Don’t aim for better, aim for BEST.
I’m on a roll now. Closets being liberated all over the house this week!