I’m super duper busy this week, so this post might be a little blurby! Our church is having a sweet little Valentine’s banquet this weekend for about 30 people, and I ended up in charge of setting up, decorating, shopping for the food, and making desserts.
Does anyone else love being busy?
Stick with me through this. I have a point, I promise!
We usually go with paper, plastic, or foam plates for church functions since there are so many people. But if you’ve ever once in your life used a disposable plate, you know those babies would never hold up when loaded with a hefty steak and a generous baked potato. And who wants to eat off of plastic at a Valentine dinner?
And I also needed salad plates, dessert plates, bread plates, cups, sturdy forks, knives that actually cut more than butter…
I was starting to feel quite nauseous pricing out “good” plastic.
I remembered real plates are a thing.
I searched our church kitchen, and I found them! A few years ago, someone had donated some dinner plates, bowls, and saucers. We also had a pretty decent collection of matching drinking glasses.
Y’all….I went out and bought enough real dinnerware to feed 30 people for less than what it would cost to use plastic.
I wanted to share all that with you because I think it makes an *excellent* point that minimal is whatever you need it to be.
Sure, the stack of dishes in our church kitchen got a little bit taller this week. And, yes, I’ll be washing dishes for a long while afterwards. But…
- I saved money.
- I have better quality items that can be built upon and reused. (Imagine a future potluck with NO PAPER PLATES! Insane.)
- The church kitchen has plenty of empty cabinet space, so storage is a non-issue.
- I ensured that the only thing going into the trash cans this weekend will be paper napkins. (I’m working on making cloth napkins to pair with our fabric tablecloths!)
- People can eat comfortably without having their forks snapping in half
Minimalism can be based on so many factors.
Environmental impact, cost, storage space, long term usefulness, quality, personal value, etc.
For this banquet, I considered all of these things, and I concluded with keeping more stuff than I started with.
As I’ve said in another post, minimal is relative. I also believe it’s much more broad than going through your trinkets or wardrobe and labeling each item as joyful or not. It can be based on deep pondering, not just an immediate emotional reaction. It can be based on what you need, it can be based on what you want, it can be based on what you know you don’t want or need.
One person’s method doesn’t have to be your method! If your method is bringing you peace and joy, don’t let anyone else take that away from you in the name of “doing it the RIGHT way.”
Chocolate covered strawberries, anyone?!